Monday 29 November 2021

SIDE CHICKS: EFFECTS


 Side chicks we know is a woman kept by a man aside his main partner. Many men are of the view that side chicks only know how to do it well- like they know how to screw but lets not forget that car owner will never mishandle his car because he knows that if it breaks down, he will be the one to take the responsibility of fixing it up.

Wiktionary defines side chicks as African – American vernacular use to refer to a woman one dates in addition one’s girlfriend or wife usually in secret.

The name side chicks means a side placed by the side instead of the” main chick” which  is the wife or the girlfriend.  Side chicks may also refer to a woman or a lady engaging in intimate relationship with a man who is already engaged or committed to another woman.

A side chick does not care about the partner’s relationship even though they may or may not be aware but all they need is the fun and satisfaction they derive from their man. She is kept distance from home which means they have appointments, dates elsewhere away from the man’s home.  It can also be referred to as “bestie” especially if it is the woman that is keeping the man. 

 Pulse,ng refers to side chick as a hidden one, the force behind the scene that man cannot resist.

 They can also be referred as “sugar boy or girl” when the younger  lover is involved. Urban dictionary refers to it as the other woman or a mistress that is neither the male’s girlfriend or wife who is having an affair with the male notwithstanding the fact that the partner is in another relationship.

A popular Nigerian author and lawyer Reno Omokri once described side chicks as the death partner of many men stating that all they bring about is destruction. He further accuses side chicks of using the man’s desire for intercourse against him by destroying his home.

Most often, the relationship with the side chick is very confidential but in most cases, the man ends up falling in love with the side chicks which may hamper his original relationship if not handled well. This is when the man starts complaining about everything that the wife does, and may start avoiding the wife. In some cases. 

The side chick trys to get in control of the man’s life and threatens to expose the man if she does not get what she wants

Many has identify emotional convenience as some of the reasons for keeping a side chick – they believe that a side chick does not require much because not much is expected of you as the male folk. According to them, stress are lesser with side chicks. While others identify the issues of sex satisfaction.

 They noted that the side chick always gives one sexual satisfaction  like they know the styles and the positions to make the man go crazy and they can never say ‘No’ when the male folk is in need . It’s obvious that some men will always want “some more.” The question remains why the main partner can’t give them the extra?

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Sources: Opera news/find out the difference between side chicks and main chicks

               Legit.ng/reno omokri advice on side chcks.

               Pulse.ng/what exactly does  side chicks do better than main chick

 

 

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