Wednesday 27 June 2018

THE ESSENCE OF GIFT GIVING

Giving gifts is an important part of friendships and relationships. Gift giving is often the most obvious way a partner can show interest, strengthen a bond or even signal that a relationship should end. Some researchers believe evolutionary forces may have favored gift giving. 



Gift exchange is a major part of celebrating the holidays, but did you know the whole act of gift-giving can offer psychological benefits?

 Giving a gift is a universal way to show interest, appreciation, and gratitude, as well as strengthen bonds with others, sources say. When we give without expecting anything in return, we are improving our psychological health.

According to Lorna Byrne, a gift, no matter how small, is a statement that you care about someone. It is a gesture of love and peace that can make an enormous difference to a person.

Margaret Rucker, a consumer psychologist at the University of California, Davis, says men are typically more price-conscious and practical when it comes to the gifts they give and get, while women tend to be more concerned about giving and receiving gifts with emotional significance.

Acts of kindness are very important, but a gift endures in a way that an act of kindness doesn’t. It is something physical that can rekindle memories years on, according to a study.

They have found that giving gifts is a surprisingly complex and important part of human interaction, helping to define relationships and strengthen bonds with family and friends.

Psychologists say it is often the giver, rather than the recipient, who reaps the biggest psychological gains from a gift. 

People who stop giving gifts lose out on important social cues, researchers say. “Who is on your gift list is telling you who is important in your life,” Dr. McGrath said. “It says who is more important and who is less important.”

But the biggest effect of gift giving may be on ourselves. Giving to others reinforces our feelings for them and makes us feel effective and caring, Dr. Langer said.

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Sources: nytimes.com/why do you gift
https://www.southuniversity.edu/the-psychology-behind-giftgiving
huffingtonpost.com/ giving gifts is an important part of friendships and relationships.
theodysseyonline.com/give-to-love-love-to-give

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